When
I was a kid, I remember calling out to my mother all the time. It really was simply
the highlight of my day. I would always get very much excited showing her the
things I can do or the new things I’ve learned. I’d call out to her to share my
artwork, shout out her name “mama” and show her my cart wheel, relentlessly
call out to her as I hid behind bedroom doors to instantly play hide and seek, tag
her and run away, and I even clung happily along with my brothers and sisters
to our window frame while waving our hands in excitement and while shouting
“mama!, mama!” as she approached the front yard.
We
were quite the hyper and happy bunch of kids I guess. There was just so much
happiness and eagerness in every one of us to see mama’s face and see her
walking through our front door. We’d hug her all the time, and call out to her
persistently too. I must have called out to her a million times a day or at
least that’s what it felt like to me at the time. And guess what? Mama always gave
us her undivided attention every time. Those were really exciting times for my
very young self I guess, and it’s also something I never get tired of
reminiscing.
When
I was a kid, I didn’t know why I kept calling out to my mom and continuously
yearned for her attention. But I did know that it felt great, it was something
I looked forward to everyday, and it made my day so much better every time mama
responded. I guess it’s something universal to all kids around the world. It simply
shows the unconditional love kids have, we have for our moms that we want her
to be the first to know everything and anything about us.
I
realize now more than ever that my mom is as important to me then as a kid, and even more so today that I still yearn for
her attention and call out to her just because. It’s truly a bond unlike any
other. This beautiful tradition of love and encouragement to kids I hope
continues on with today’s mom generation. I understand we now live in a much
different world of technology with all the cell phones, laptops, and gadgets in
our faces day in and day out. I hope that with such technology we use it as a
tool to connect more to our kids and not serve as a distraction to us.
When
our kids holler, let’s not falter. Let’s give our children the attention they
rightfully deserve right away, everyday. Whenever they call out to us, however
ridiculous and insignificant it may seem, even if it pushes back our schedules
a little bit, let’s take a second, give them a huge smile, a big hug, and most
importantly give them our undivided attention. Because moments like these are
precious and kids getting our attention all the time is their way of showing us
how precious we are to them.
To
all mothers out there, I say this in behalf of all the children, in behalf of
those who were once children, and for those who continue to be children at
heart, thank you. Thank you for your utmost patience in raising us, for
nurturing us, for loving us, and for believing in us always. We love you mom!
