The fastest way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, yes we’ve heard this many times but I say it’s a three part thing really. The second part that makes things shiny and new is Love – you both must love each other and the third part to complete this beautiful Love triangle is Lifetime courtship – it’s a continuous way of expressing your affection. Both of you should learn how to keep things fresh and keep things going. And especially keep his heart in yours far longer than forever with a little help of constant and clear communication as well as learning how to be together in harmony.

Early on in your relationship you might find yourselves kinder but the best way to go is learning on how you can give an honest comment rather than saying something pleasant to the ears but really is partly a white lie. That way neither of you would feel the need to play pretend and it doesn’t mean at all that being honest is saying things in a mean manner. Saying what you really mean to say but using kinder and gentler words will work just as well, communication is your keyword. After all life is better spent looking back on your ‘oh wells’ rather than looking back on things filled with ‘what ifs’. Follow your heart, trust your intuition, don’t hesitate, always have faith in Love and especially your beau.


Chaos Theory

You might hear some people say Love is the greatest thing there is or that Love is a roller coaster ride you might fall off from hard and that it would give you a seemingly never ending heartache. I’m sure you will all agree that at one point in your lives, you will have had your young and tender hearts
broken into shards. And don’t hang out in the gloomy side, there is always a way to fix things or if not great things will come sooner than expected. However varied and contrasting opinions there may be on this thing called Love, the most important thing here is that you can always choose the bright side of things. It all starts when you make your choice, when you both choose to be happy and that’s all it takes to make your Love last a lifetime. You’ll surprisingly keep finding yourselves making things work, no matter what. It’s all you – both of you!

Though Love seems to have a formula filled with inconsistent stuff or at times seem like a fight waiting to happen, you will find clarity. You only have to recognize, appreciate, value and believe that the Love you both have is worthwhile, worth pursuing and unique. This will be a great way to start building your confidence in your relationship and a great road to tread that will eventually lead to your forever. This will be coupled with a lot of patience and broader understanding as each one of us grows wiser in time. While Love isn’t exactly like what you’re used to seeing in story books and fairytales, when you fall in Love, it will definitely be as good as it gets.


Finding Clarity


Never let hearsay, fear and hesitation push you aside and send you off hiding in a dark corner of your seemingly stone cold heart. Instead, believe in Love, take a leap of faith, be bold, be romantic, be kind, be patient, be true to yourselves and speak the language of your Love, in your own unique and unconditional ways. After all, Love always finds its way not just to the young and wild hearts but to each and everyone's hearts.